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    Read an essay on this week’s Parsha, Parshas Yisro, written by Rabbi YY Jacobson, a world renowned lecturer on Nigleh and Chassidus and the dean of www.TheYeshiva.Net • Full Story

    Read an essay on this week’s Parsha, Parshas Yisro, written by Rabbi YY Jacobson, a world renowned lecturer on Nigleh and Chassidus and the dean of www.TheYeshiva.Net.

    No Stairs

    This week’s Torah portion, Yisro, capturing the most important and defining event in Jewish history, the covenant crafted between G-d and a people chosen to become the paragons of morality and holiness in an earthly world, concludes with a strange instruction (1):

    “You shall not ascend My Altar on steps so that your nakedness will not be uncovered upon it.”

    The biblical commentators explain (2) that the priests serving in the Temple wore short pants, spanning from the thighs to the knees. Ascending stairs requires one to take wide, extensive, and spacious steps, which would expose more of their body, and would not befit the reverence required in G-d’s home. The Torah, therefore, required a ramp ascending to the altar, since this allows the priest to take small strides in a dignified and respectful manner.

    The great 11th century French biblical commentator Rashi (3) explains this in greater detail: “Steps require you to take wide strides. Although this does not in actuality expose your nakedness… nonetheless, taking wide steps is close to exposing nakedness. Thus, by taking wide steps, you treat the stones of the altar in a humiliating manner.” Rashi adds that this mitzvah teaches us an important moral lesson. “If regarding these stones which lack the perception to be hurt by their humiliation, the Torah says, ‘Since there is a need for them, do not treat them in a humiliating manner,’ your fellow human being who is created in the image of your Creator and is sensitive to humiliation, how much more so must you treat him with respect!”

    The Climax

    As mentioned above, this week’s portion captures the most significant event in the history of the Jewish people and of the world — when G-d, in a moment never to be repeated again — revealed to an entire nation His existence, charging it with the mission of saturating the world with holiness. This was the moment when the Creator communicated to the world His universal laws of morality and ethics. If we believe that somebody created the world and cares about its destiny, it is fair to assume that at some point this Being communicated with its inhabitants His intent in creation. This is indeed what transpired at Sinai. It was the event that gave human history, in historian Paul Johnson’s words, “the dignity of purpose.” It paved the road in the jungle of history.

    One would expect that the closing sentence of this portion would somehow capture the power and grace of this extraordinary moment, one that in many ways shapes the moral history of humanity. Yet the Torah chooses to culminate this section with what seems to be a simple and mundane law: “You shall not ascend My altar on steps so that your nakedness will not be uncovered upon it.” Why? (4)

    Finding Your Own Truth

    It is precisely in these final words that the Torah shares with us a moving lesson regarding the human quest to “ascend G-d’s Altar,” to climb the ladder of moral and spiritual enlightenment.

    Often in life, people experience a new awareness that inspires them to move their lives to a different level, to live deeper, and to love deeper. They are moved to make changes.

    Yet sometimes, as a result of a genuine longing to abandon a previous lifestyle of shallowness, falsehood, addiction, promiscuity, loneliness, or shame, people begin to take wide and expansive steps, determined to reach great peaks in short spans of time, craving to master elevated modes of consciousness and lifestyles.

    Thus, immediately following the most spiritually enlightening and earth-shattering event in history, when G-d shared Himself with humanity, the Torah culminates with this declaration: “You shall not ascend My Altar on steps, so that your nakedness will not be uncovered upon it.” Do not become who you are not. Do not jump to places beyond yourself. Every movement forward must be internalized and integrated into your individual identity because when you take steps that overwhelm you, rather than elevate you, you may end up naked and exposed. You might fall down fast and hard. People who overestimate themselves, often end up underestimating themselves.

    Never disregard, the Torah is teaching us, the value of one small move in the quest for truth. Wherever you are in life, you can serve G-d genuinely according to your own potential and situation. You can discover the light of G-d within your present condition. Challenge yourself to encounter your own inner light and truth; you need not climb on the truths and experiences of others. Grow you must; challenge yourself you must. But take the ramp, not the stairs. Don’t jump ahead of yourself, because your authentic self may be left behind. And when you discover that, you may fall down and lose everything. You might end up bare.

    King Solomon put it simply (5): “Do not stand in the place of the great.” Why? Not because by stepping into the shoes of the great, you will be robbing somebody else of his or her place of greatness. Rather, by doing so, you will be denying yourself your own individual process, the one that is great for you. Real people are inspired by other people but never copy them.

    Of course, there are moments you make take a big jump that may initially seem frightening. Big things happen when ordinary people muster the courage to actualize extraordinary visions. The path to recovery and to healing always requires a drastic leap. Yet we must ensure that these big steps enhance our true identity rather than crush it; that they embody our inner calling, mission, and power, not a superficial emulation of other people’s standards and behaviors.

    “To Thine Own Self Be True,” is also true in the religious and spiritual life. Sometimes even more. G-d wants you to be you, not me. He wants me to be me, not you.

    Wine and Vinegar

    A Talmudic vignette:

    The Talmud (6) quotes one of its great sages, Mar Eukva, saying the following curious statement about himself: “I am, in comparison to my father, what vinegar is in comparison to wine. When my father would eat meat, he would wait a full 24 hours until he ate cheese. But I? When I eat meat, I eat cheese during the following meal” (around six hours later (7)).

    The obvious question is, if this Talmudic sage held his father’s behavior in such high esteem, to the extent of seeing himself as vinegar compared to his father as wine, why didn’t he change his behavior and follow his father’s custom? Why didn’t he turn himself into “wine?”

    The answer may be that Mar Eukva was keenly aware of the truth that his father was on a totally different spiritual level than he. Waiting a full 24 hours after eating meat before he would eat cheese would in some mystical way enrich his father’s soul. For the son to engage in this behavior, it would be merely an act of copying and mimicking his father’s behavior. For his soul, this would be a meaningless experience.

    Since according to Jewish law, after eating meat one needs to wait only six hours in order to eat dairy products, this sufficed for Mar Eukvah (8).


    1) Exodus 20:23.
    2) Sefer Hachinuch Mitzvah # 41. Cf. Rambam’s Sefer Hamitzvos Mitzvah Lo Saaseh #80.
    3) Rashi to Exodus ibid. from Mechilta.
    4) Also: A well-known axiom in Jewish thought is that every single mitzvah contains, in addition to its literal meaning, a psychological and spiritual interpretation (See Rambam end of Hilchos Temurah.) The physical and concrete dimension of a mitzvah may not be relevant anymore, yet its metaphysical message, transcending the boundaries of a particular milieu or location, remains timelessly relevant in our inner hearts and psyches. The same is true, of course, concerning this mitzvah. In the absence of a Temple and an altar, the instruction not to use stairs, is, practically speaking, irrelevant. But we must search for the spiritual idea behind this mitzvah, which remains as timely today as it ever was.
    5) Proverbs 25:6.
    6) Chulin 105a.
    7) See Rambam Hilchos Maachalos Asuros 9:28. Shlchan Aruch Yoreh Deah section 89 and commentaries ibid.
    8) This essay is based on Letorah Ulemoadim, by Rabbi Shlomo Yosef Zevin, Parshas Yisro. For another spiritual interpretation of this mitzvah, see Or Hatorah (by the Tzemach Tzedek) Parshas Vayeizei p. 850.


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